Friend....Foe?? How are we to know?

All day my two best friends and I have been blogging back and fourth about how wonderful friendship is and the strength and bond we share! So of course with a very new found amazing friendship in the making and these two truly (blow my mind) woman in my life I am stopped in a split second cause of another outside person to ask....what is a friend and what is a foe?? And this is in no way what so ever pointed to these 3 amazing people...purely from a outsider trying to come in. I am a bit dazed and more confused on how someone can claim to be so close to another but than shed words of fantasy to someone connected to that person...(yeah i know that makes no sense so bare with me haha) We have all had our down falls and days or months of feeling as if nothing matters, but does that in turn make it ok to more or less share your thoughts (sexual or innocent) with someone you claim as your best friends (ex) girl?? HMMMM? What a friend right? Don't get me wrong, this person is great, and just moved out of state to pursue much better opportunities but I would have to call foe on this one. It saddens me to think that because he has always come off as a great guy...but words and actions can show much different. And in all honesty does he think I would play into his fantasy world and play his games? I am proud to say I have much more respect for myself, my family and my friends to ever get caught up in a whirlwind of something that insane. Eh, who really knows? I sure the hell don't have the answer for it all and I could definitely go on about this for days upon days, but why? Really, why am I even talking about it right now? I am just soooooooooo very blessed to be surrounded by some truly magnificent people!